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“Becoming a father
taught me that I can stand up and be there for someone. It
showed me that someone can depend on me. Even though I may
not have all the answers, as long as I try and give my best
effort, everything will be alright.”
Ellis found out about Brothers United from his step-brother. He joined
because it was an opportunity to be around men going through
some of the same things that he was going through. He also
realized that the opportunities the program offered could
help him become a better man.
“BU taught me
patience and how to compromise with my co-parent. It taught
me values and priorities. It taught me to stand for
something.”
Ellis learned to use the term co-parent when addressing the mother of
his child. He also realized that he didn’t have to be afraid
to ask questions and admit when he needs help.
Life after Brothers United has been more positive for Mr. Ellis. He
credits the program for helping him learn how to protect his
children and open up and express himself to them, which has
enhanced their relationships.
“I look at things
more optimistically. Brothers United has basically boosted
my life, taught me a lot of valuable lessons. I look forward
to telling people I was a part of BU and being acknowledged
when people see me.
If you are interested in joining The Brothers United Program or have
someone you want to refer : Call us at (4199) 279-6297 or
www.pathwaytoledo.org
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